{"id":1856,"date":"2015-08-28T15:12:06","date_gmt":"2015-08-28T15:12:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/?p=1856"},"modified":"2021-11-28T16:43:22","modified_gmt":"2021-11-28T08:43:22","slug":"does-he-really-love-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/does-he-really-love-you\/","title":{"rendered":"When the Three Words, \u201cI Love You,\u201d Should Be Said"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to love, we all have a lot of questions. We want to know who we are supposed to be with for the rest of our lives and how to keep from getting our hearts broken. We want to make sure we are loving the right person and that we are worthy of that love. When we are in a relationship, there comes a time when we wonder <a href=\"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/4-soul-mate-relationships-that-will-impact-your-life\/\">if our partner really loves us<\/a>. For women, we might wonder why our partner doesn\u2019t tell us that he loves us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Every relationship has its own timeline for saying those three important words. Some people jump right into love, while others take time to grow comfortable and settle into love.<\/strong>\u00a0There\u2019s no right or wrong way to tell someone that you love them, but there are things to consider when thinking about your partner and love.<\/p>\n<h2>Here are a few factors that can influence when you say \u201cI love you\u201d in a relationship:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How long you\u2019ve been in a relationship.<\/strong>\u00a0This is a major influencing factor in when you should know if you are falling in love with your partner or not. If you have been dating for less than three months, saying \u201cI love you\u201d can be a knee-jerk reaction to the excitement of a new love affair. Take your time to settle into this new person and this relationship before you blurt out these three important words.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Between three and six months, reassess your relationship.<\/strong>\u00a0Are you both still enjoying one another\u2019s company? Do you still go out of your way to hang out with one another and plan activities? Are you meeting each other\u2019s friends and even family? If you are, you are heading in the right direction for that \u201cI love you\u201d moment<\/li>\n<li><strong>If you\u2019re around six months into a relationship and neither of you are saying \u201cI love you\u201d yet, ask yourself why.<\/strong>\u00a0One or both of you might have relationship boundaries that you\u2019ve talked about with one another, which is good. You should both be comfortable with where you are at in your relationship and where you both see this heading.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Now, here are some red flags to watch out for around the six to nine-month mark. If you and your partner still seem to be dating, but only casually, you might want to re-examine your commitment to them. If your partner struggles to make time for you, isn\u2019t dependable, and routinely bails on your plans, this relationship will likely not work out. If they aren\u2019t taking it seriously after this long, there\u2019s little hope that they will start taking it seriously ever. This isn\u2019t the basis of true love.<\/p>\n<p>Some partners may feel affection for us, but they aren\u2019t in love or falling in love. However, they might be comfortable, which is why they don\u2019t want to let you go. This situation isn\u2019t fair for either party and can drag on for months or even years. If you haven\u2019t said \u201cI love you\u201d between nine months and a year, this relationship likely isn\u2019t succeeding.<\/p>\n<p>Your life partner should love you and express that love through actions and words. If you are in a relationship where that isn\u2019t happening, then you need to leave. Forcing a relationship or waiting for love to develop is tempting, but it is harmful and often useless. If your partner isn\u2019t giving you the love you need and deserve, find one who will.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, saying \u201cI love you\u201d is an essential part of a relationship. We all deserve to love and to be loved in return. If you are in a relationship and your partner isn\u2019t expressing this love, consider why you are still in that relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/psychics\/love-relationship-psychic-readers\">Love Psychics | Expert Psychics Available 24\/7<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to love, we all have a lot of questions. We want to know who we are supposed to be with for the rest of our lives and how to keep from getting our hearts broken. 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