{"id":2427,"date":"2016-03-26T05:17:16","date_gmt":"2016-03-26T05:17:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/?p=2427"},"modified":"2021-12-12T22:38:58","modified_gmt":"2021-12-12T14:38:58","slug":"keeping-track-notch-bedpost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/keeping-track-notch-bedpost\/","title":{"rendered":"Notches on Your Bedpost"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>The number of people that we\u2019ve had sex with is just that- a number. It doesn\u2019t tell anyone who those people were or how we felt about them. In any new relationship, though, this all-important number inevitably comes up in conversation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always best to be honest with your partner about how many people you\u2019ve slept with if they ask. However, you are under no obligation to tell them how many people you\u2019ve been with. That is your business and, again, the number doesn\u2019t indicate the circumstances around those encounters. People are intimidated by the number when it really doesn\u2019t matter at all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you do tell your partner your number and they tell you theirs, hold back all judgement.<\/strong>\u00a0Those people are in their past, and it is part of who they are. This number does not influence how your relationship will turn out.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There is no perfect number of sexual partners to have in your life.<\/strong>\u00a0There are stigmas attached to sleeping with a small number of people just as there are stigmas attached to sleeping with a lot of people. But how many people is too many, and how few people is too few? There are no good answers to these questions.<\/p>\n<p>When you are with a new partner it\u2019s very important to be up front about your <a href=\"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/6-things-all-guys-want-in-bed\/\">sexual health and what you want<\/a>. Of course, if you have any STIs or other sexual health concerns, talk to your partner. Together you can move forward happily, healthily, and united. If they are concerned about aspects of your sexual health, continue talking about them. Getting everything out in the open is the best policy.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that the number of sexual partners you\u2019ve had doesn\u2019t mean that your next relationship isn\u2019t meaningful, committed, or important. you should be able to connect with a new partner on many levels, including a sexual level. By being honest and forward with what you need and want you can create a sustainable and stable partnership together.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/psychics\/love-relationship-psychic-readers\">Accurate Love Readings When You Need Them. $0.99\/min. Satisfaction Guaranteed!<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The number of people that we\u2019ve had sex with is just that- a number. It doesn\u2019t tell anyone who those people were or how we felt about them. In any new relationship, though, this all-important number inevitably comes up in conversation. It\u2019s always best to be honest with your partner about how many people you\u2019ve [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5372,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2427","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-love-relationship-psychic-readers-articles"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/maxresdefault-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2427","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2427"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2427\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6454,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2427\/revisions\/6454"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5372"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2427"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2427"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2427"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}