{"id":2954,"date":"2018-02-13T19:53:41","date_gmt":"2018-02-13T19:53:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/?p=2954"},"modified":"2022-07-26T07:21:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-25T23:21:09","slug":"men-chases-bitches","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/men-chases-bitches\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Men Chase Bad Women?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There\u2019s a stereotype that women love to date assholes, and men like to date bitches. Unfortunately, women who are strong, confident, and driven are often labelled bitches because they aren\u2019t easily controlled, and they know what they want out of life. Women who are confident, put themselves first, and make others earn her attention and they aren\u2019t as easy to capture for men who need to feel rewarded in the dating game.<\/p>\n<p>Too many of us fall into an entirely different category, though. We will bend over backwards to get a guy to like us, from replying to his texts at all hours to jumping into a relationship well before either of us are ready for it. These \u2018good girl\u2019 behaviors might make you a good girlfriend, but they aren\u2019t necessarily making it easy for you to be a good girlfriend to the right guy.<\/p>\n<p>Men like the chase, and they want to chase women who are worth chasing. Here are a few ways that you can go from all-too-willing to chase-able in no time.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Let him make plans with you.<\/strong>\u00a0Rather than initiate all of your conversations, let him come to you. This will show how far he is willing to go to spend time with you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t break your plans to hang out with him.<\/strong>\u00a0Sure, you really want to see him, but don\u2019t ditch your existing friends in order to spend time with some guy. He\u2019ll respect that you have a life outside of him, and you\u2019ll seem cool and collected when making plans with him when your schedule is free.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dress comfortably and confidently.<\/strong>\u00a0You want to make an impression while still being yourself and leaving something up to the imagination.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t cook for him right away.<\/strong>\u00a0Wait until the two of you have gotten to know each other a little bit before you drag him back to your place for a home cooked meal.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wait to have sex.<\/strong>\u00a0This is easier said than done! In a relationship it is helpful to wait a little while to be physically intimate with one another. You want to make sure that you are compatible, comfortable, and respect one another before connecting yourself together physically.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wait to make the relationship official.<\/strong>\u00a0Of course, if it\u2019s been a few months and he hasn\u2019t made the move to continue pursuing you, gracefully bow out. You deserve someone who knows what you are worth.<\/li>\n<li><strong>If he breaks up with you, take it gracefully.<\/strong>\u00a0Breakups are difficult, especially when you felt like you really had a connection with him. Let him go and move on to someone who deserves you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t fret if you don\u2019t have a ring yet.<\/strong>\u00a0It takes us at least two years to fully get to know someone, and even longer to really see how both of your personalities develop while you are together and when you are apart. Give yourselves time to solidify your relationship before you commit to spending the rest of your lives together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t mess with the exes.<\/strong>\u00a0If you are committed to your partner, you don\u2019t feel the need to be in touch with old relationships, even under the guide of wanting to be friends. You have friends that can be your support network without dragging in complications like old lovers.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t put all your hopes in one place. If the person you\u2019re interested in doesn\u2019t seem to be responding to you, move on.<\/strong>\u00a0You\u2019ll seem less desperate, invest in other things that make you happy, and be available for the right person when he or she comes around.<\/li>\n<li><strong>In the end, work to put yourself first. Invest in your health and happiness.<\/strong>\u00a0Have fun with dating, and don\u2019t get bogged down in other peoples\u2019 expectations of what your life should be like.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/psychics\/love-relationship-psychic-readers\">Best Love Psychics &#8211; 24\/7 Online Psychic Readings<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There\u2019s a stereotype that women love to date assholes, and men like to date bitches. Unfortunately, women who are strong, confident, and driven are often labelled bitches because they aren\u2019t easily controlled, and they know what they want out of life. Women who are confident, put themselves first, and make others earn her attention and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4037,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2954","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-love-relationship-psychic-readers-articles"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-talking-earnestly-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2954"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2954\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6825,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2954\/revisions\/6825"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psychicoz.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}