Have you ever had a feeling for someone that is more than just a friendship? It could be a coworker or someone that lives down the street form you. Maybe they are always kind, but you wonder if they are being friendly or if they are really flirting with you. You want to know if they like you or if they are just trying to be friendly.
This can be really hard when you work with someone that you are attracted to. You want to make sure that you aren’t crossing any weird lines when you are at work. It is important to find out if someone likes you before you ever cross any lines. If he is into you, it is something you need to know but if he is just being nice, this can change everything.
You might have conversations with this person where they tell you about other girls that they are flirting with or other girls that they are dating. This could be that he is just trying to find out what to say to you or it could be that he likes other people and not you. You need to look to see if he is giving you signs that he likes you.
Flirty or Friendly?
There are ways that you can find out if he is flirting with you or if he is just being friendly. Here is how:
- Being Subtle
Some guys will be subtle about touching you. This can be that he moves closer to you, or he pats your back or your leg after you say something funny. He might touch you on the shoulder or the back when he walks by you. This could mean that he wants to make contact with you. These are things that are full of flirting actions and intimacy.
- Friendship Talking
Sometimes though a guy might just want to talk to you like he would one of the guys. If he is talking to you like he does other friends, he probably doesn’t like you in that way. If he is teasing you or always paying you compliments, it can mean he is showing romantic energies.
- Being Quiet or Loud
Sometimes a guy that tis interested in you will do things like being overly friendly or intimate. This can mean that he likes you. He might whisper or be super excited when he talks to you, and this probably means he is being more than friendly, and he has feelings for you.
- Text Messages
Maybe this guy has a hard time talking to you, but he is flirting through text messages. Do you have a hard time finding out if he likes you by what he is saying in texts? Maybe he even flirts in texts but then in person he acts like he is shy or doesn’t know you.
If his texts are showing that he likes you, then this can mean that he is worried about starting drama at work, but he still likes you. This can be dangerous for your job, and you have to be careful how you take things in the work place and make sure that it doesn’t cost you your job to date him.
- Smiling At You
Pay attention to how he smiles at you. Make sure that you are looking at how he smiles at you when he walks by you. If he is always just nodding and smiling, he is probably being nice but if he smiles and lights up when you walk in the room, he probably likes you.
- Being Super Nice
Just because someone is super nice doesn’t mean that they like you. He might buy you a coffee or put effort into helping you with a project. This can mean that he likes to spend time with you, or it can mean he is just nice.
Sometimes guys are just flirty, and they don’t mean anything by it. If you have a guy in your life that you like, you need to look for signs to see how he feels about you. If you are worried about him not liking you or liking you, try to invite him out to a place outside of work where you can talk and you can find out what kind of attention, he gives you outside of the job.
