Some people want to get a psychic reading but they aren’t sure about what to expect or what to be wary of. It is important that you don’t get scammed and that you find a psychic that you can trust to give you a genuine reading.
Maybe you have made a mistake of going with a psychic that you didn’t know or that you didn’t review, and you found that you have been scammed. Or, maybe you decided that you have to have a face-to-face reading in order to make sure that there is a connection.
The truth is, you can easily get scammed when you get a psychic reading because most people that get one are looking for answers and are vulnerable.
Some psychics will teach themselves to read a person by their body language or by the way that they express themselves. This will cause the client to trust them and they will give out their information even if it is personal.
Not all psychics are fake but you have to learn how to find a psychic that is real and genuine and not one that is just out to get your money.
Phone Readings
One of the best ways that you can get a reading that is authentic is by doing one over the phone. This is a way that your psychic cannot tell if your body language changes. They have no way of looking at your facial expression or how you move your body.
They will have to be sensitive to you and they will have to use their natural gifts in order to read your energy. A real psychic will be able to use their intuition and the energy around them to understand what you need.
There are some people that have psychic gifts and are able to see, smell, hear, taste and feel in the spiritual world. Some can read minds, others cannot. A real psychic is able to really feel your energy and they are able to make a deep connection with you. This will give you a reading on a different level.
What to Do Before Your Reading
The best thing that you can do before your reading is to make sure that your thoughts are organized. Make sure that you know what questions that you are going to ask. You can write these down before you even start your reading so that you are prepared.
Don’t ask questions that are too vague or questions that aren’t specific. Don’t ask yes or no questions. Make sure that you are getting the answers that you are seeking.
You can ask anything such as love, relationships, money, grief, self-esteem and more. Psychics will suggest that you have your questions based on different categories so that you can stay on one subject at a time.
When you get a reading the first time, it is easy to stray and to ask questions that you weren’t going to ask but you need to make sure that you are ready. Don’t talk about a lost loved one and then talk about your job.
Even though you can talk about any subject, write it all down first so that you make sure that you get all of your questions answered. You can ask them one at a time and they will be able to give you answers that you can check off as you get them.
This will help you to focus on the problems that you have at hand. Get the guidance that you need from your psychic but make sure that you are prepared.
Your Own Feelings
It is important that you understand what is going on and what concerns that you have. Make sure that you ask yourself why you even want to get a psychic reading. If you want to change your job or you wonder if your partner is cheating on you, you need to be prepared for these kinds of questions.
Make sure that you are figuring out first what you want to know before you start your reading. A real psychic can get to the bottom of the things that you are asking but you need to know first what you want.
As you do this, you can find out if your psychic is on the same page as you are and if you are making a real connection with them. Think about the feelings that you are having and be sure to write these down with your questions. You can remember this way to bring them up so that you can discuss them with your psychic.
This is very important to remember if you are going to be talking to a medium. This way you can remember to face your emotions before you talk about your deceased loved one.
Asking Questions
Think about the questions that you have written down and why you want to ask these questions. Make sure that your questions are specific and that they aren’t too broad. Instead of asking things like, “How long until I can meet my soulmate?” ask “What can I do to improve my chance of meeting my soulmate?”
These types of questions help you to get the most information and the best information for what you are trying to find out. Remember, psychics don’t always see into the future, but they can use their intuition and energy to understand things better than some might understand them.
Because of their intuition, a psychic might have an insight on what your future holds. When a psychic tells you that something is going to happen at a certain time or date, they are probably scamming you. No real psychic can give you an exact date because this can change because of free will.
Open Intentions
It is important that you know your intentions before you go to a reading. If you are going to see a medium to contact your dead loved one, this doesn’t mean that your medium will be able to do this. This will depend on your loved one and the energy around you.
Try to focus on your loved one before you go to your reading. Tell them that you want to meet with them when you see your medium. Ask them to join you and your reading and tell them how much you miss them. This can help you to have a better reading.
Most of the time your medium will be able to make contact with your spirit but this works better if you set your intentions before you go to your reading. If your medium is not able to connect with the spirit, don’t feel bad, just know that this happens sometimes and it isn’t your fault.
Pay Attention to the Time
Psychic readings cost money and so you want to make sure that you are paying attention to your time. You don’t want to take a long time on one subject because the more time you take, the more it will cost you.
Pay attention to what is valuable to you and ask one question at a time and then wait for an answer. If you ask a lot of questions at one time it can be harder for your psychic to answer them.
You don’t want to take a lot of time with your reading because you want to get the most out of your money. Even though a psychic is doing their job, you don’t want to be scammed out of your money. This means that you don’t want to waste a lot of time by you doing all of the talking.
Take Notes
You can take notes during your reading and this is important so that you can come back to read them later. If you have more questions or you want to dig deeper, go back and read the answers that your psychic gave you.
Keeping good notes will help you to keep a timeline and can give you more information than you even realize. You can ask your psychic to help you to recall things if you need to.
If you talk to a medium, you will want to know more what your loved one said and you will have a hard time remembering it all because of the high emotions. Make sure that you write things down once you get a strong connection with your psychic.
Final Thoughts
Once you are more comfortable with your psychic, they can give you better advice that you need to get the answers that you are seeking.
