Ladies, we all know the struggle and you find yourself out with a guy and things are going further than you anticipated. You forgot or didn’t have time to conduct your usual pre-date routines, like shaving or putting on the perfume that you like so much. You might have parts of your body that you are insecure about, or you aren’t wearing the lingerie you think he likes.
Well, if it makes you feel any better… he probably doesn’t notice or care about any of that!
When a man is with a woman, he is concerned with making her laugh and getting her clothes off. Your imperfections take a backseat to the things he loves about you and the way you make him feel. He won’t notice the thing s you’ve struggled to cover up and most likely he’ll only notice if it seems like you’re having a good time or not.
Here are 4 things guys won’t notice in bed:
- Your flaws. If you hate your thighs or haven’t brushed your teeth, don’t worry! He’s just excited that you want to be in bed with him. In the heat of the moment, all those imperfections, real or perceived, are swept aside. You both want to enjoy one another completely, which means putting aside your thoughts and feelings about your flaws.
2. What you’re wearing. You might have thrown on something without even thinking about it and ended up meeting someone you couldn’t keep your hands off of. You aren’t wearing the things that make you feel sexy or fashionable, but don’t worry! Again, this guy is going to be happy that you’re into him, regardless of what you’re wearing.
In the moment, though, a guy is more into the sounds that you’re making and how you feel than he is concerned with the weird looks you might be giving him. This is the sexiest moment, so don’t worry if you think your face looks weird! Make the noises and faces that fit the moment- silence doesn’t encourage anyone in bed.
3. Body hair happens, ladies. Any guy who is bothered by hair isn’t worth having in your bed. Don’t worry if you haven’t shaved in a bit or if you aren’t looking the way that you usually do, believe me, guys won’t notice. A little maintenance is always good but do what makes you feel healthy and beautiful and sexy. Don’t let hair get in the way of your good time!
4. When it comes to sex, the sweatier the better! Sweat plays a big part in attracting a partner through pheromones. These chemicals are important for attracting and keeping a partner. Some artificial scents are good, but our natural scents are highly erotic for men and women alike.
In the end, the things you notice about yourself probably aren’t high on the list of things a guy will notice about you, especially if you’re in bed. A guy appreciates if you’re confident in bed and into him. If they do make a comment about your imperfections, they aren’t worth keeping around.
While it’s true that confidence is vital, this article could benefit from acknowledging that everyone has different preferences. Some men do care about details, just as some women do. It’s all about finding someone who appreciates you as you are.
The emphasis on confidence and naturalness is well-placed. Often, societal standards make us overly critical of ourselves, but genuine connection surpasses these superficial concerns.
This article is a refreshing reminder for women to embrace their natural selves. It’s high time we stop fretting over every little detail and enjoy the moment. Confidence is indeed the sexiest trait one can possess!
So, let me get this straight – a man shouldn’t care if I haven’t brushed my teeth? Pretty sure bad breath isn’t on anyone’s ‘attractive’ list. Thanks for the ‘expert’ advice, Love Psychics.
This post oversimplifies men’s attention and undermines a more profound connection that can be established. Reducing male perspectives to mere physical attraction is a disservice to both genders.
It’s interesting to note how little attention is supposedly paid to minor flaws. This perspective might help alleviate some anxiety for individuals worried about their imperfections.
Ah, the age-old reassurance that men are oblivious! Thanks for the laugh, I’ll remember not to stress over my mismatched socks next time I meet Prince Charming.
The article makes some valid points about self-perception and partner perception during intimate moments. It’s important to focus on the mutual enjoyment and connection rather than getting caught up in personal insecurities.
While the insights provided are enlightening, it’s crucial to consider that everyone has different preferences and levels of attention to detail. Understanding and communication should always be prioritized.
The points raised about body hair, clothing, and natural scents are quite thought-provoking. It underscores the idea that personal comfort and mutual attraction are key, rather than conforming to external expectations.
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