Is Your Pet Jeopardizing Your Relationship?

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Pet Jeopardizing Your Relationship

So, you finally have met your perfect mate, and this could be the one that is meant to be with you forever. But just because you have this new man in your life doesn’t mean that your pet is going to let you free.

You might have a pet like a cat, dog or even a bird that might be more a part of your everyday life than you even know. If you find that your communication with your partner has lacked, then you might need to see if your pet in your life is causing your more problems than you know. What ways are your pets involved in your life? What kind of changes do you need to make if you have found the perfect mate?

You won’t need to just get rid of your beloved pet because you met someone new, even if they don’t really like the pet, it doesn’t mean that you have to get rid of them or that you have to stay single. There are some great men around that will love you even if you have a pet and there are ways that you and your pet can adapt to the changes of someone new coming into your lives.

Unbeknownst

There are people that have never had a pet in their lives before. This can mean that dating someone that has a pet might be problematic for them. They might feel stressed and not know how to even act around a pet.

There are some pet owners that didn’t grow up with pets, but they can learn how to love your pet just like you do. If you don’t want your pet to leave the house, you need to make sure that your partner gets used to not leaving doors open, for example.

Pet Allergies

One problem though could be if your partner has an allergy to pets. Pet owners are normally not allergic to their pets but if someone comes into your home that has an allergy, it can be very hard and problematic for them.

Your partner might have medical conditions that stop him or her from being in a confined space with a pet. You have to learn to have time together with your pet and then together with your partner and choose a space that is safe for both to stay away from each other. Or, if you are just wanting to get a new pet, you can always pick one that is hypoallergenic or an outside pet.

Animal Haters

Of course, there are some people that will hate a pet right away. This can be a fear of animals, or it can even be jealousy of just your pet. If you have a partner that is not acting right because they are jealous of your pet, you need to consider this a possible deal breaker with your partner. The relationship might not be something you want to keep going.

Pet Attention

There will be less hours that you get to give your pet attention if you get a new partner. This doesn’t mean that you have to stop spending time with your pet, it just means that you might have to change your schedule some and you might have to change the times that you do certain things.

Pets don’t do well to changes, but they can adapt to changes if you take things slow. Sometimes owners will do whatever is best for their pet but if you are with a new partner and you have to change things up a bit, your pet will get used to this.

Adopting a Pet

There are some couples that decide that they want to adopt a pet together after they are in a relationship with each other. One of the first things that you have to do is to make sure both of you are going to and are willing to be responsible for taking care of the pet. There can be accidents in the house or things might get torn up or destroyed and this has to be something that you are both willing to deal with.

Another thing is how the time will be spent with the pet. You might have a partner that wants to have a dog when you move to a home with a nice yard for them to play in. You have to talk about when this will be if the pet will be an indoor or outdoor only pet and when this pet adoption should take place. Also, you need to make sure that you and your partner both agree to the care of the pet which can get time consuming.

Having a desire to have a pet is exciting sometimes but you shouldn’t have a pet in your home just to make your emotions feel better. Having a pet is a big responsibility and even though you love and enjoy having a pet around, make sure that you are doing this for healthy reasons and not for anything else.

Communicating the Needs

You and your partner need to communicate what both of you need in your life. Figure out what your partner wants from you and what you want from them. You should make sure that you are able to give your partner the love and affection that they need.

Relationships are about having affection for someone that you love, and it is important that you don’t allow your pet to stop you from being able to have a partner and to live a healthy romantic life. Stopping yourself from being able to be intimate with someone because of a pet can leave you feeling lonely and cheated.

Be confident that you have a pet that you love and that you love your partner, and you can both work together to figure out how to make the relationship work even if there is a pet in your life. As you accept a new person in your life, allow your pet to do the same and allow your partner to accept your pet so that you can all live together in peace and harmony.