Do you ever wonder why you make bad choices or why you do things that you know you shouldn’t do? You need to not be so hard on yourself. The things that we do wrong are a result of part of our journey and these can come from bad relationships or things that caused you to feel like a target.
Most men and women are looking for a person to be their partner that makes them happy and whole. They are looking for qualities in a partner that help them to be a better person and to be with someone that they are attracted to. Most men and women are looking for someone that is financially stable, strong, independent, and successful. These different qualities can make them look attractive, but you should always look for red flags before you get overly attracted to them.
Narcissists
Narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths are attracted to women that are strong. The reason behind this is because someone like that is looking for passion and wants to have a spicy relationship. They are drawn to people that will complete their life. They want someone that can give them love, can be kind to them, support them and bring them security. But the truth is that some people are completely opposite of that.
Love
People that have antisocial disorders usually are not empathetic. They only care about themselves, and they find it hard to care for other people. They have no concern for themselves or for others.
Women who are looking for a partner are sometimes targeted by these people. They look for a person who is compassionate and loyal and they begin to trust them even though they are really just taking advantage of them. It is hard for women to not be attracted to these qualities and people with antisocial disorders can turn these qualities on easily.
There is no real way to love someone, and you should always be strong when you are looking for a relationship so that you can be safe and get what you want and need.
Responsible
You can become a target, and this happens even when you are very mature and an attentive person. You might have grown up taking care of other people and so it makes you stronger and more mature. You want to have fun in your life, but you take on too many responsibilities and so having fun is hard.
Let go of some of your responsibilities sometimes so that you can have a good well-being. You need to take care of you and learn how to take control of things and have responsibilities, but you also need to be able to let go.
Give yourself freedom and learn to balance being responsible and having fun. Find your balance in people that you have relationships with.
Power
When you have a lot going on in your life, chances are you are ambitious and work hard. This personality can be exciting to a narcissist because women that have power are attractive. A narcissist is not afraid of a strong woman because they are often weak and need to be balanced by someone stronger than them.
When you are being treated badly, know that someone is burdening you and causing you emotional problems. They are taking your energy and trying to use your strengths for their own good. There is nothing you can do about someone like this but to live your best life, even if that means to be single. You need to not always worry about finding the right partner because the universe will bring them to you. Be careful who you choose to connect with.
The idea that one should not be too hard on oneself for past mistakes is comforting. Everyone is on a unique journey, and self-compassion is vital.
It’s interesting how the article highlights the attraction of narcissists to strong women. It raises awareness about the dynamics of such relationships.
The article provides a nuanced view on relationships and the pitfalls of encountering narcissistic personalities. It’s essential to stay vigilant and prioritize self-care.
This is just another piece adding to the already mountainous heap of pop-psychology drivel. Scare tactics about narcissists and psychopaths only perpetuate paranoia and insecurity.
I find this article remarkably insightful. It’s crucial to understand the psychological dynamics behind our choices, especially in relationships. Knowledge is indeed power, and this piece empowers individuals to be more discerning.
So, according to this, we’re supposed to walk around with a ‘narcissist-detector’ to avoid emotional entanglements? What a practical way to live! Maybe we should all just wear signs stating our mental health status. Brilliant!
Oh great! Another article blaming women for being ‘too strong’ and attracting toxic people. That’s just what we needed. Guess I’ll just tone down my independence and ambition to avoid the narcissists. Thanks for the life-changing advice!
The author’s portrayal of narcissists and people with antisocial disorders is somewhat accurate but lacks clinical nuance. It would benefit from a more grounded explanation of psychological terms and symptoms.
The emphasis on finding balance between responsibilities and having fun is crucial. It’s a reminder that personal well-being should not be neglected.
The discussion about the characteristics of people with antisocial disorders and their impact on relationships is insightful. Awareness can help in making better choices.
I agree with Doris. Understanding these traits can serve as a protective measure and help in recognizing red flags early on.
Doris makes a good point. Educating oneself on these personality types is important for maintaining healthy relationships.